Growing Together In Marriage


The Art of Sexpionage


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Iris Benrubi, is a Dating and Relationship expert, psychotherapist and marriage counsellor.  She has spent the last 20 years professionally Coaching and Counseling men, women and couples in over 14 countries to find True Love.  Iris has interviewed Dr. Phil on how to attract a Good Man and asked Mel Gibson  ‘What Women Really Want’, has #1 Amazon Best Selling book “Lonely and Single to Loved and Adored”, is an inspirational and charismatic international keynote speaker most recently in South Africa.

Iris loves coaching Savvy Successful women how to attract her Lifetime Partner by showing a her how simply changing her ‘Relationship Blueprint‘ she becomes “attractive and be attracted to” the kind of partner that can make her happy and shows women how to make her relationship of a lifetime last a lifetime.   

Iris has traveled in 57 countries so far and aiming for 125.  She shares her life with her Love with her Soulmate that she attracted through using her own 3 step process she teaches women and when they aren’t travelling together, salsa dancing skiing or driving one of their convertibles in the rain; she enjoys riding her motorcycle, skiing and jumping trampoline.



I'm Monica Tanner, married to my best friend, boss mom to 4 small humans, weekly podcaster at On the Brighter Side ~Marriage For Entrepreneurs and relationship and intimacy Sexpert.

I get it, entrepreneurship and marriage are HARD...they both take work.

There are lots of ups and downs and sometimes it all just feels like TOO MUCH. But can I let you in on a little secret? 

It's easier than you might may just need some simple, time-saving, life-saving skills and strategies. That's where I come in...

I firmly believe that there are no two people on planet earth who love each other more than me and my husband and I would love to help you believe that about your own marriage as well.

I help married couples reignite the passion in their relationship, rediscover intimacy in a way they never thought possible and reinvent their sexuality through my signature process called Training in the Art of Sexpionage.